Hindsight is 20/20.
That proverb almost always comes in the context of regret. Whether it be a lamentation or used as a defense, it still brings remembrance of something less than ideal. The problem with this is two-fold. First, regret does nothing to change the consequences of an event, so it is quite literally useless to hold on to. Second, it implies that one would act out the scenario differently if given the chance to re-enact it.
Speaking to the latter, indecision is a killer. It takes away ownership of our personal autonomy and leaves us unfulfilled. Each decision we make is based on our experience and intuition up to that moment. Apart from forced external pressures, the choice we make is the best option we are presented with. Knowing nothing of what the future holds, our judgement is based on all the available information we are presented with.
When we are truly honest with ourselves, one option always stands out at least a little more than the others. The blend of rationality, logic, and intuition can change, but the net result will always work itself out.
By limiting external noise and “going with our gut”, we can make the best decision at every fork in the road, even with consideration for the potential ramifications.
Rather than fearing the risks and playing scared, own your choices. Be honest with yourself, make the decision, and stick to it. Always hit or stay on 16.
Inevitably, some consequence will arise that will make many people question the initial decision, or wish for a chance to replay the event. Those events happen, and as painful as they can be, they are a part of life.
Living a full, authentic life can only be played this way. Fearing nothing, and facing the world with a healthy dose of reckless abandon.
