We tend to operate on the premise that adding things to our life will cause a net positive effect. By whatever form it takes place – convenience, comfort, status – we disproportionately highlight the benefits over the costs.
We default to many of these decisions because of societal norms. We fear what others may think if we opt for an unconventional pathway, and the judgement that we perceive in their minds leads us to conform to the ways of the majority, exempt of consideration in many cases.
The point is not that these things can’t provide immense value to us, but rather that they typically also involve some sort of liability. We can begin to see this more clearly when we change our decision criteria. Instead of looking at convenience, efficiency, and productivity, we can shift the scope to mental clarity, peace of mind, and simplicity.
Considering the full scope of what every choice entails puts us in a better position down the line, particularly when the initial benefits plateau and begin to fade, and the chances of downside increase. Build your plans around your future self, but at the same time, never lose focus on the present. If we can’t enjoy it, what’s it all for?